Deviant Advice

“Dear Deviant Advice.

This is so hard for me. I just realized that I want to move to someplace other than where I live. I’ve lived in this town my whole entire life and want something else. But I don’t want to leave my friends and family. I’m so scared, what do I do?”

- ER, Tyler

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“What’s Up DA?

Here’s my situation.  I love my girl. Love her to death. We have a lot of fun together and she’s the best thing to ever happen to me. What makes it fun is that she’s a bit freaky and she likes to do some crazy stuff. We’ve talked about threesomes, but she seems shy about it. I told her that I’m cool if she wants to hook up with other people, but she always says she doesn’t want to.

So then we come to a couple weeks ago. We’re hangin out with our friends and she gets a bit tipsy and, next thing I know, she’s all over some other girl. Don’t get me wrong, I’m lovin it… but what do I do? She says she’s nervous, then does this. Is she just tryin’ to have her cake and eat it too? Should I worry? What’s up?”

- EE, Reno

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Hi Deviant Advice. I’ve got a situation that I need your help with.

For starters, I’m 25, male, and a virgin. I’ve never been with a girl and I really want to be. I just get scarred though and have a hard time talking to girls. I go out to the bars with my friends and they try to help but it doesn’t work at all. I just keep getting shy and nothing happens. I really hate that all my friends hook up except for me. Help me Deviant Advice, you’re my only hope! (sort of like Obi Wan! LOL).

-XN, Knoxville

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Why hello there fellow Deviants!

No doubt, you’ve probably noticed that there’s been some changes to the site lately. Well, we decided that going with Wordpress made more sense than Blogger, mostly due to the fact that we wanted more finite control of the site. Nothing against Blogger though, it’s a great platform.

We’ve also added in the DISQUS comment system. We decided to go with DISQUS since it’s a great system and actually reduces some of the load on our site since it won’t have to constantly paginate comments. We also did it because people are wanting to have things centralized and comments are fast-becoming part of that list. For the time being we are allowing people to post without having accounts at DISQUS, but we’re pretty sure that this will change. You’re welcome to sign up at DISQUS of course, but it’s not necessary at this time.

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