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Dear Deviant Advice

I love my fiance, but I’m starting to wonder if she’s not the right girl for me. You see, I think she’s becoming a feminist. She talks about the wedding being a “patriarchial ceremony” and says she won’t take my last name since no one “owns” her. She also wants to make sure that the wedding isn’t held anywhere religious since that’s more “patriarchal” something or other.  So what do I do?

-MM, Tulsa

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